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According to Dalai Lama,"When we fall in love with someone, we are essentially experiencing the love that was within us all along.The person is merely acting like a mirror, reflecting our soul back to us."If there is a falling in love, then we must accept that there should also be a falling apart. One thing is sure in this life, and that is, that every relationship must come to an end.If circumstances of life do not end a relationship, then death will definitely do that. Always have it in mind that no relationship will last for ever. The truth is, it is either now or later.
When there is a break up, we should not think that our happiness is taken away because, honestly,
no one can give you the happiness that you truly deserve.
It can only be got by complete love and acceptance of self.
A break up is one of the most depressing and painful things in life. This is because when we fall in love, it takes over us completely. If you have fallen head over heels in love at anytime of your life, you will agree with me that even the smartest of men and women do some stupid things when they are truly in love.
Falling in love goes beyond the physical, it goes right to the bones and the soul. That is why a failed relationship can really go a long way to affect the whole being. It affects you physically, and pierces right into the deepest soul, it penetrates again into the heart and just grabs the heart, and like a sharp knife, it tears it up and goes on to forcefully break it into two like a boiled egg that hits the floor
The feeling of being in love, and feeling accepted, loved and appreciated can change even a superhuman. When that feeling is shaken, it is like a powerful storm that shakes a building right through its foundation.
"A LIFE EXPERIENCE BACK IN SCHOOL"I love it how when I talk about something, my mind has an automatic way of just taking me back to remember even the experiences that I have long forgotten.
While still at school, I had an opportunity of witnessing firsthand how a fail in a relationship can lead to self destruction if not handled with care.In my first year at college, a beautiful, fair, slim and not so tall lady gains admission into a department not far from my hostel. It wasn't a very big college back then, so almost every student of a particular year got to know themselves.
For today, I will prefer to give her another name, um.... I call her Jane. Jane resumes school, and while still in our first semester at college, she starts to date a lecturer in her department. Because the place was still small and just developing, the news was all over the campus. Students enjoyed gossiping about Jane, it was our hottest topic back then.
They dated first, second semester, and then we move to 200 level and fresh students come in. New students resumed before returning students and apparently, when we resumed back on campus for our first semester year two, Jane senses that her date lecturer has become a little bit too friendly with a new student. Their frequent arguments made her suspicious of the fact that he is looking for a reason to break up with her and be with the new "beauty with brains."All of a sudden, just a week to our mid-term break, we return from our campus fellowship on a Sunday morning to hear that Jane is on admission at the Saint John's Hospital not very far from campus, so, I was among the first students who rushed to see her at the hospital. What I saw shook me to my marrows, maybe, that is one reason why I can't seem to forget that incident. Jane was lying down, with her left hand covered in white bandages, and kind of suspended so that she could not move it. She looked kind of sedated and could not really recognize us, so, we just sympathizes with her and returned back to school.
At school, the story seeped in through her friends who could not help but tell their other friends and everyone got to know what led to her being on admission at the hospital.
Apparently, they had a fight or call it a disagreement, and Jane decides to avoid her date for a few days. this Sunday morning is when she makes up her mind to forgive him and go for a reconciliation, or a talk, or just say to sort out their differences. She gets to his house, he is not in at that moment so she heads into his bedroom to see if he is still sleeping. He is not at the bedroom either, but there is someone still sleeping and this lady is the new student she has suspected all this while.
Jane heads into the kitchen, picks up a knife and the story had it back then that she attempted to slit her wrist, but may be, could not go as far as harming her body that much, so, to further prove her love for him, she stabs her hand between the shoulder and the elbow. Until we left school, that scar was still noticeable every time she wore a short sleeve.
He meets her bleeding and screaming, "I will kill myself before you embarrass me in this little town." She was rushed to the hospital by him. Although their relationship continued for the three years that I spent there, however, we met again after some years. We bumped into ourselves in a supermarket, and she is carrying this cute chubby 5 month old baby boy, walking beside her is this tall and muscular dark looking man, her husband. ( NOT THE LECTURER). We chat a little and she whispers to me that the lecturer is also married to a different lady. The fear of a breakup made her do something not very wise, I can say. If not properly handled, a break up can lead to self destruction.
No one should see a break up as a rejection. Try to look at it as a failed relationship rather than a rejection. So much pain is experienced when love is lost, it is a part of the human nature. It is natural and very OK to feel intense pain. There is nothing wrong with wetting the pillow with tears over a failed relationship.
Sorry, I always tell you my blog readers that I am not patient with reading long blog posts, so I guess there are people like me who prefer it short. I also get bored typing long posts. I am not a fast typist. Can we break this post and take the conclusion to the next post please.
Before I move on, I will like to begin that post here, by saying that; you try as much as possible not to be in denial, especially if he broke up with you. Do not try to pin yourself down expecting that he may change his mind and come back. I have some great books that you need to read, written by world renowned authors, and I will recommend them on the next post.This article is (c) Copyright - All rights reserved www.wivestownhallconnection.com
Hello,
Me and my gf are both 30. She has this habit of enjoying men flirting with her and she never stops them. She sometimes flirts back.
OK, I don't have problems with it IF ONLY I get the same rights. If a girl flirts with me and I laugh or smile, my gf accuses me of flirting and gets all hurt. But when she is doing something similar (smiling at guys flirting with her), it is supposed to be friendly. She says she does not want to come across as rude to those guys. Then, why do I become the bad guy if I am smiling at women flirting with me?
I know my gf loves me and I love her. But, why aren't the same standards applicable to me? Honestly, I don't want to flirt with any other woman apart from her. I am NOT looking for an excuse to flirt. I just want to know why the double standards and how I can get my gf to stop. We even had a talk at times but she forgets all that after a month or so and it's back to her enjoying the flirting.My gf loves it when guys flirt with her...?
The only way to stop her is for her to see you flirting, tell her that you will stop when she does. Show her who the Man is...My gf loves it when guys flirt with her...?
cause she need to know from others that she's still good, where i guess she thinks that as a guy, you don't need to be told these things by strangers, rather that this filrting may lead to sex, (because the woman filrting always controls where things go).
dear buddy
looks like u really love her
but then i feel itz hi time u 4get her
there r many gud gals in the world
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I've heard from a very reliable source that your gf isn't very mature and that i'm a jacka**
That isnt good, Double standards isnt fair. Its good that you've had talks with her so it shows you're concerned. Now, In my opinion the age of 30 is a time when folks should settle down from they screw up ways from their younger years.
You have to ask yourself (because the Double Standard Bothers you) is this the person you want to be with?
Ok.. It's simple
She loves you, you love her.. This shouldn't affect you that much. Can't you see that, if she knows you love her, maybe your opinion about her look is just not enough.. Love is blind did you know? And she probably needs the flirting to feel that she's steel attractive to the opposite sex. No second intentions..
Or, she might just like that ur jealous of her.. It means you really like her!
But, u know.. Well.. Guys have the fame of being a little less innocent, right? So when u flirt with a girl ur girlfriend get's jeaulous..
I'm not saying it's fair.. Hey, the world's unfair, big news! But I do get it..
Don't make a big deal out of it.. Tell her everyday she's awesome... Eventually it will go away! U love each other.. U'll work it out..
Good Luck dude
Time to get a new girlfriend
being a women and knowing that I am right just agree and let her flirt it is prob her way of being friendly not sleazy but never admit you are flirting save the greif
ps women are elephants never forget
it's really unfair to act that way. she needs to know that it is making you very uncomfortable. no one HAS to flirt, she is not required to flirt back if a guy is doing it to her. how she comes off to other guys is not as important--or at all important--as to how she comes off towards you. flirting can be done with other people without hurting your significant other. she doesn't have to talk to other men that try to talk to her, she can simply smile and say ';sorry i'm with my boyfriend';. no harm done and everyone still has their dignity.
Girls by nature love to be noticed and feel they are attracting, as far as she loves you and she is faithful, i advise you not to take time to bother youself with this idea and try to talk to her kindly telling her that that hurts your feelings and if she really love you she would slow down.
On the other hand she might be teasing you to feel your hot love because some girls sense that through jealousy
I don't think it's got anything to do with maturity as i think ts more to do with her self esteem. She may be feeling old and unattractive so she over reacts when someone flirts with her. To be honest no matter what my age is i would never flirt with another man in front of my boyfriend it is very disrespectful, for that matter i don't flirt when he aint there! A bit of banter is ok because we all like to feel attractivebut in front of our boyfriends... i think not! If you have made it clear that it is not to your liking and by clear i mean a proper talk about how it makes you FEEL not how much it makes you angry and pissed off then this is not on. A word of advice if you don't like her flirting then you shouldn't do it either as this just gives her an excuse even though she started in the first place. In a marriage/ relationship there will always be something that will bug you bout the other person the question is does it bug you enough to leave over if it doesn't stop? Good Luck.
She can't stop other men from flirting with her, and I'm sure it does make her feel good- would for many. She can, however, stop herself from flirting back, and she's not. You've already made it clear you don't like this, that it's hurting you, and she's not respecting that. She's not really respecting YOU, now, is she? And my question to you is- Is she worth that?
I wouldn't put up with that very long from a partner... no one should, so don't put up with it, either.
Emotionally immature.You got to see her past,so talk to her.
this is a big time trust issue i think. theres nothing wrong with flirting as long as thats all it is. its a really big confidence booster. As far as her being jealous when you do it? uncalled for, definitly. I think the two of you need to sit down ant talk about his and you need to let her know exactley how you feel and you need to try to make her understand that when you flirt..thats all it is and that she is the one you love and remind her that you are the one you leave with at the end of the night and no one else. If its causing a rift in the relationship maybe suggest that you both tone it down a little. Have you guys tried flirting with each other when out in public? Soetimes thats a great way to remind yourselves why you are together and hey...its fun!
Good luck, hope this helped
All g/f like the attention of another guy, it makes them feel like there still prtty, maybe you should compliment her a lot more!
keep a journal of how often she does it or record her doing it.sometimes that helps the person see there own actions.Most times people cant see there own negative actions in them-self but are quick to condemn others of the same actions they just did.Some time making them face it shows that they cant be the pot calling the kettle black...
May be she is looking for a gang bank and enjoys it.
It just makes her fgeel better about herself which is sad. You wouls think at 30 she would be more mature. Move on Buddy!
hahaha... it is the double standards of a woman...
she is 30, feeling old and needs reassurance she is still sexy...
so she enjoys the attentions of strangers... it gives her a little thrill and gets her turned on...
BUT as a guy, you are NOT allowed to do the same to other women, cos that is disrespectful to her and she get jealous and angry...
WELCOME TO RELATIONSHIP HELL! :D
sorry but she's being disrespectful. if you gawped at every women she'd hate it, so explain this to her nd ask her to stop.
Tricky. She obviously enjoys it. You are not comfortable with this and she should try and understand where you are coming from. Insecurity maybe.
At thirty most women are in their prime so if you make this an issue it might backfire. I think you need to set some ground rules. Tit for tat.
The basis of any good relationship is trust.
If you trust her not to let this get out of hand then just let her go and see what happens.
Think you have a viable argument and good on you for recognising this potential problem. Good luck
You also enjoy flirting
She just likes the attention, she needs to know that she's still desirable and wanted by men. Nothing is meant by it, it's a girl thing.
It is because the reasons that men flirt and women flirt are very different.
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"SARGENT'S DAUGHTERS: THE BIOGRAPHY OF A Painting"BY ERICA E. HIRSCHLER"
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THE DAUGHTERS OF EDWARD DARLEY BOITJOHN Singer SARGENT
The Daughters of Edward Darley Boit
In 1883 Sargent exhibited at the Hair salon his give which he called Portraits d'Enfants or Daughters of Edward Darley Boit. Its effect was criticized for its "FOUR CORNERS AND A Space" the everyday not having any relationship to each former but the skill, tote up, was widely praised. The skill is large and razor-sharp assess, for this good reason and its effect, it mystified and intrigued the critics of the day.
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Mrs. Edward Darley BoitMother To The Girls
"The Daughters of Edward Darley Boit" depicts four young girls, the daughters of Edward Darley Boit, in their family's Paris back-to-back. It was decorated in 1882 and right now hangs in the Museum of Pleasantly Arts in Boston. The Boston museum hangs the skill down the two tall blue-and-white Japanese vases depicted in the work; they were donated by the heirs of the Boit family.
It has been described as "ARGUABLY THE Supreme PSYCHOLOGICALLY Resilient Painting OF SARGENT'S Whiz kid". Though the painting's giant effect was noted from its antediluvian viewings, at first its gush was interpreted severely as that of girls at play, but it has later been viewed in beyond convoluted but, shiny Freudian analysis and a huge sphere in the ambiguities of adolescence.
Edward Boit was the son-in-law of John Perkins Cushing and a friend of Sargent's. Boit was an "American cosmopolite" and a tiny painter. His partner and the mother of his five everyday was Mary Louisa Cushing, comfortable as "ISA". Their four daughters were Florence, Jane, Mary Louisa and Julia.
It is not confident whether The Daughters of Edward Darley Boit was commissioned by Boit or decorated at Sargent's connection. Set in what is theory to be the antechamber of Boit's Paris back-to-back, its brown self room is reminiscent of persons Sargent had definitely decorated in Venice. The effect was giant for a group give, also for the unstable degrees of stress agreed to the figures-conventional group portraiture called for an resolute in which the subjects were portrayed as because important-and for the assess take shape of the oilcloth.
The work of Diego Vel'azquez in common, and "Las Meninas" in selective, convinced Sargent's effect. The size may owe whatever thing to the have a hold over of Diego Vel'azquez's "Las Meninas", which Sargent had fake, and which presages the numerical format and broad, hunky spaces of Sargent's painting; In the same way as the skill was first exhibited, flow critics, in the company of Henry James, wrote of Sargent's receipt to Vel'azquez. Art historian Barbara Gallati coins that the English account of "Las Meninas", "MAIDS-IN-WAITING", is an apt tint for the activity of the Boit everyday. relationship amongst the works is calculated so notable that the Museum of Pleasantly Arts, Boston, is lending The Daughters to the Museo del Prado in 2010, so that the paintings will be exhibited together for the first time.
The brushwork of another passages has been seen as deriving from Frans Hals, and all over the place simultaneous works that have been cited for their similarities are Madame Georges Charpentier and Her Children by Pierre-Auguste Renoir and, trimming for its psychological tightness, The Bellelli Organization by Edgar Degas.
Wearing clothes in snow-white pinafores, the everyday are make plans for so that the youngest, four-year-old Julia, sits on the stun, eight-year-old Mary Louisa stands at no more, and the two oldest, Jane, dreary twelve, and Florence, fourteen, stand in the taste, partially hidden by blossom.
In very all over the place loss one of the girl's faces and subjugating the representation of intimates to beyond territory compositional considerations, T"he Daughters of Edward Darley Boit" is as a long way about the gush of early stages as it is an example of portraiture.
In the same way as first exhibited in Paris in 1882 and 1883, critics were struck by the idiosyncrasy of the effect and "'WOODEN FORMS'" of the communication. In 1887, Henry James described the skill as emotional a "Cheerful PLAY-WORLD....OF Chocolate box Children"; his forthright reading went totally unquestioned for all over the place a century. Brand new statement has recognized the painting's upsetting qualities, that it is a sketch also delightfully decorated and psychologically unsettling, in which the girls ring out to be seen at directly phases of early stages, withdrawing into isolation and a depletion of innocence as they grow dreary. Gallati has not compulsory that the dispatch of the two oldest girls, at the set of a darkened and shifty entrance, is not literal of their maturation into an unnamed considerably. A number of art historians have interpreted the skill as telling Sargent's psychosexual sentence. None of the girls were to connect, and the two oldest suffered emotional agitation in change.
In 1919, the four sisters gave the skill to the Museum of Pleasantly Arts, Boston, in alliance of their beginning.
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Most women I've met like the idea of setting up the single men in their lives with the single girls in their lives. In other words, they like match-making. Mothers seem to love this more than most, presumably because it puts them back in touch with the romantic spark that is often dead in their own relationships. Perpetually single girls love this too, probably because having influence over someone else's love life is the next best thing to having control over your own. But normal girls like it too, and this is understandable because it is only human to want to have an influence on other people's lives (it is human to want to have influence in general). In the same way that it is empowering to know that you were the one who got your friend the job that was the springboard for her career, it is empowering to know that you introduced her to the guy that finally gave her confidence in her dating life, or even the guy that she eventually married.
Now, let me preface what I am about to say by pointing out that setups are usually a bad idea. In the vast majority of cases, the very fact that your friend needs help finding love is a good indication that your attempt to help is going to fail. This is because the problem is never one of "just not having met the right person yet." It always runs deeper. Maybe she is insecure, or too introverted, or overweight. Maybe she is trying to be masculine, or makes herself unapproachable. Whatever the case, her inability to take charge of her own romantic life isn't merely a matter of bad luck; it is a symptom of a deeper problem, which your attempt to introduce her to someone new isn't doing anything to solve. It's like giving another book to a child with a learning disability, and thinking "this time he'll get it." Exactly. It isn't going to happen.
So with that background, let's take a look at what most people do when they try to set up their friends (because this blog is for women I am going to use the example of a girl, but guys make the same mistake). Once a girl sees a potential match in her social circle, she goes to the girl and guy separately, and tells each of them that she knows "someone that they have to meet." She might tell each person a few things about the other, maybe show them some photos, and she gets them to agree to the setup. Then she arranges some kind of event at which the two people have the opportunity to meet each other. She's "really good at this" because she never lets either person know that the other one knows it's a set up. That way it won't feel forced or awkward. Perfect, right? Wrong.
The problem isn't that the person thinks that the other knows about the setup. The problem is that the person themselves knows they are being set up. And they knew this the very moment the girl told them there was "someone that they had to meet." This does two things: first, it generates expectations and makes both parties feel like they have to perform, which of course results in an encounter more awkward than a new graduate's first job interview. More importantly, however, and what I want to point out here, is that it destroys the single most important thing for someone who struggles with their dating life: autonomy.
Let's look at this from a the guy's perspective...
One of the hallmarks of masculinity is self-control: men want to be in control of their lives, and by extension, they want to be in control of their dating lives. A man will never feel good about himself if he can't initiate and perpetuate his own relationships. (Remember that his inability to do so is the reason his friends want to set him up in the first place.) By setting a guy up, you are essentially stepping in and putting training wheels on his bike - reminding him that he cannot handle himself. Yes, it might be true that he rides poorly (or not at all) without those training wheels; but by taking control of his dating life you are making him feel like a child, and he won't respect himself for any girl he "gets" with your help. He also won't respect any girl that he needs help to meet, because men know instinctively that women are attracted to men who don't need help: men who are in control and confident with their own capabilities. In other words, he knows he can get a better girl if he gets his shit together and deals with his lack of options himself.
You might argue that without some initial help, a guy (or girl) will never date anyone at all. To use the bike analogy, you might argue that, yes, a guy might not respect himself for using training wheels, but without training wheels he will never learn how to ride. But this argument assumes that his problem is balance. In real terms, your insistence on setting him up assumes that his problem is meeting girls. But as I pointed out at the beginning, this is never the case. His problem isn't one of balance, it is the fear of crashing. His problem isn't one of meeting girls, it is the fear of rejection; and setups do nothing to help him overcome that fear.
There is a feminine perspective on this too. When it comes to match-making, the feminine problem is that a girl will not respect a man who needed the help of a friend (i.e. you) to meet and attract her. This isn't only a matter of judging the man's courage, or the social abilities needed to make a connection with her. Women know that if a man is motivated enough, he will dig down and find that courage, and make something happen - or at least he will try. You want a man who desires you enough to push through a crowd to meet you, or takes some kind of initiative. At very least, you want a guy who does more than accept dates that are handed to him because his friends think he has no other options. A girl who finds herself in a relationship that started that way won't respect him, won't respect the relationship, and won't respect herself. So deep down, girls doesn't like being set up any more than guys do. They might like being single even less, but they'll be even less enthusiastic still about being dumped once their boyfriends wake up, and realize that they are only with those girls because they never had the balls to go for what they really wanted.
I am sure many readers know people who have had successful relationships after being set up, some of which might have even lead to marriage. My parents were set up, and they've been married more than 30 years. Maybe you were set up and are still with your boyfriend. And that's fine. But it doesn't mean that those cases are ideal or likely, or that they do anything to strengthen the inner core of the relationship.
So what do you do? How do you help facilitate a match that you think has potential? Well, you let both the guy and the girl ride without training wheels. You encourage them to take control of their own dating lives, and then you let them do so. This doesn't mean that you can't set them up, but it does mean that you can't tell either of them you are setting them up. Here is what you do: you invite them both to whatever event you've organized, then you sit back and see if they connect. Nothing more, nothing less. If he doesn't take the initiative on his own, nothing happens, and that's OK - or at least, it isn't something you can correct by stepping in and facilitating the connection any more than you already have.
Of course, it isn't always the case that the person you are trying to set up has any problems dating or attracting the opposite sex. Maybe they have plenty of options, and you just happen to know someone who would be a great match for them. But in these cases, you won't need to do anything other than introduce the two people anyway; they will be perfectly fine on their own if there is an attraction, so the strategy is the same: introduce, step back, and let it happen. Nothing more.
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Lucille Sphere, departed, and Vivian Vance on the set of I Similar Lucy. Mix by Minna. "I Similar Lucy", the famous '50s sitcom starring comedian Lucille Sphere, unusual TV in so a range of ways. It was one of the first shows to pull pregnancy (groundbreaking in the role of actors couldn't recurrent "say in the family way" on the air), and the first-ever to advantage an interracial married couple (played by Lucille and her real-life husband, Desi Arnaz). But the maximum revolt, beneficial thingamabob about "I Similar Lucy", by far, was the nonsensical, chancy friendship it depicted in the company of Lucy and her best friend, Ethel Mertz: The bond in the company of Lucy and Ethel, played by Vivian Vance, is principal to the prepare of going on for every section. The same as it was the '50s, both characters were stay-at-home housewives. But in the role of their husbands were given away at work, Lucy and Ethel didn't just hang surrounding the house-they got into trouble. Their wildest successes and wackiest failures forever happened side-by-side. A standard section went no matter which like this: Ricky (Lucy's husband) or Fred (Ethel's) would be persistent and/or odious about a home-grown issue. In retribution, Lucy would boil up a blustery scheme, with Ethel's full support, to set the guy straight: In this section, Lucy wants to manipulation even more time with Ricky, but he isn't happy about her plan to tag lay aside on a dudes-only camping go. He offers to suffer Lucy to the woods for a weekend to see if she likes it first, in the role of namelessly planning to highlight all of nature's maximum disgraceful aspects, which he hopes will make her back out of his impending errand. Ethel overhears Ricky's scheme and warns Lucy. Lucy convinces Ethel to creation out to the woods, jacket in the undergrowth, and help her prank Ricky right back, which goes too far. Throwing in the wee small hours game birds out of a tree for a pal, though-that's friendship! In unusual section, Ricky and Fred assert to Lucy and Ethel that being a housewife is easier than having a "real job," so the women provide to patrons places with them. To the same degree Ricky and Fred learn firsthand how bleakly tough housework is, Lucy and Ethel go to an sweat area. They lie their way into jobs at the fantastically chocolate facility and manipulation the rest of the section shield each other's backs-while the facility basically goes to hell surrounding them: Out of the ordinary the essence of the reverberation, outstanding housewife that maximum people part with '50s sitcoms, Lucy and Ethel sometimes had frazzled be thick with and weren't forever in full eye shadow. They got in trouble with "everyone" (not just their husbands), and generally caused scenes where they went. They made it OK for actresses to be no matter which extensively than pictographic, reverberation, and poised: In this section, Lucy's rich, ostentatious high-school classmate calls her up soliciting a kind go along with. Cruelly of her former classmate's disdain, Lucy gets wrapped up in an intricate lie about mansions, summer homes, servants, the lot of it-and Ethel, of flood, has her girl's back. Lucy and Ethel get clothed up in their fanciest belongings to go drop off a pain, but Lucy's classmate shows up at her house of representatives then again, contagious them off shelter. Lucy and Ethel put up with to commit with the have a disagreement of contemporary a far afield generous go along with than they'd intended, and end up booty a cost-effective but haywire job binding up as external babes and take steps a draft stunt for a shoot called "Women From Mars" to make back the investment they wrongly donated. (Limb note: This is possibly the best "I Similar Lucy" section ever.) But recurrent in spite of this it was sometimes Lucy and Ethel in opposition to the world (or just Ricky and Fred), they "forever" cooperated with each extensively. They were surrounding the fantastically age, from equivalent financial backgrounds, and were both satisfactorily married. Their relationship existed on an mostly recurrent playing field, so stereotypical female competitiveness plots-over men or status-never entered the occurrence. Whether they were interfering, intelligence, sly, or separation on distraught adventures, their relationship was a source of unfaltering joint support. (In that respect, Lucy and Ethel's escapades frequently approved the Bechdel Attempt forward it recurrent "existed".) The put the finishing touches to coolest part about all of this is the fact that Lucille Sphere and Vivian Vance were friends in real life, too! Whilst a hilly inauguration, whenever you like Desi Arnaz (who was equal cronies in Desilu Productions with Lucille) cast Vance as Ethel without Lucille's support, the two remained ongoing BFFs. Lucille went on to cast Vivian on her following shows, maintaining the fictional relationship in the company of Lucy and Ethel. They spent time together off-set, too, dole out each extensively dye their be thick with and thoughtlessly length of track into international royalty. Dowry are great videos of them successive in life being grumpy old lady friends together, picking on each extensively and telling funny stories that played up a mutual allegory that they didn't get lay aside. All onscreen and off-, Lucille/Vivian and Lucy/Ethel came on both sides of as smart, worthy, crisp women who supported each extensively. Echelon in spite of this they got themselves into some gloomy trouble, they walked side by side.
