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Hello,
Me and my gf are both 30. She has this habit of enjoying men flirting with her and she never stops them. She sometimes flirts back.
OK, I don't have problems with it IF ONLY I get the same rights. If a girl flirts with me and I laugh or smile, my gf accuses me of flirting and gets all hurt. But when she is doing something similar (smiling at guys flirting with her), it is supposed to be friendly. She says she does not want to come across as rude to those guys. Then, why do I become the bad guy if I am smiling at women flirting with me?
I know my gf loves me and I love her. But, why aren't the same standards applicable to me? Honestly, I don't want to flirt with any other woman apart from her. I am NOT looking for an excuse to flirt. I just want to know why the double standards and how I can get my gf to stop. We even had a talk at times but she forgets all that after a month or so and it's back to her enjoying the flirting.My gf loves it when guys flirt with her...?
The only way to stop her is for her to see you flirting, tell her that you will stop when she does. Show her who the Man is...My gf loves it when guys flirt with her...?
cause she need to know from others that she's still good, where i guess she thinks that as a guy, you don't need to be told these things by strangers, rather that this filrting may lead to sex, (because the woman filrting always controls where things go).
dear buddy
looks like u really love her
but then i feel itz hi time u 4get her
there r many gud gals in the world
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I've heard from a very reliable source that your gf isn't very mature and that i'm a jacka**
That isnt good, Double standards isnt fair. Its good that you've had talks with her so it shows you're concerned. Now, In my opinion the age of 30 is a time when folks should settle down from they screw up ways from their younger years.
You have to ask yourself (because the Double Standard Bothers you) is this the person you want to be with?
Ok.. It's simple
She loves you, you love her.. This shouldn't affect you that much. Can't you see that, if she knows you love her, maybe your opinion about her look is just not enough.. Love is blind did you know? And she probably needs the flirting to feel that she's steel attractive to the opposite sex. No second intentions..
Or, she might just like that ur jealous of her.. It means you really like her!
But, u know.. Well.. Guys have the fame of being a little less innocent, right? So when u flirt with a girl ur girlfriend get's jeaulous..
I'm not saying it's fair.. Hey, the world's unfair, big news! But I do get it..
Don't make a big deal out of it.. Tell her everyday she's awesome... Eventually it will go away! U love each other.. U'll work it out..
Good Luck dude
Time to get a new girlfriend
being a women and knowing that I am right just agree and let her flirt it is prob her way of being friendly not sleazy but never admit you are flirting save the greif
ps women are elephants never forget
it's really unfair to act that way. she needs to know that it is making you very uncomfortable. no one HAS to flirt, she is not required to flirt back if a guy is doing it to her. how she comes off to other guys is not as important--or at all important--as to how she comes off towards you. flirting can be done with other people without hurting your significant other. she doesn't have to talk to other men that try to talk to her, she can simply smile and say ';sorry i'm with my boyfriend';. no harm done and everyone still has their dignity.
Girls by nature love to be noticed and feel they are attracting, as far as she loves you and she is faithful, i advise you not to take time to bother youself with this idea and try to talk to her kindly telling her that that hurts your feelings and if she really love you she would slow down.
On the other hand she might be teasing you to feel your hot love because some girls sense that through jealousy
I don't think it's got anything to do with maturity as i think ts more to do with her self esteem. She may be feeling old and unattractive so she over reacts when someone flirts with her. To be honest no matter what my age is i would never flirt with another man in front of my boyfriend it is very disrespectful, for that matter i don't flirt when he aint there! A bit of banter is ok because we all like to feel attractivebut in front of our boyfriends... i think not! If you have made it clear that it is not to your liking and by clear i mean a proper talk about how it makes you FEEL not how much it makes you angry and pissed off then this is not on. A word of advice if you don't like her flirting then you shouldn't do it either as this just gives her an excuse even though she started in the first place. In a marriage/ relationship there will always be something that will bug you bout the other person the question is does it bug you enough to leave over if it doesn't stop? Good Luck.
She can't stop other men from flirting with her, and I'm sure it does make her feel good- would for many. She can, however, stop herself from flirting back, and she's not. You've already made it clear you don't like this, that it's hurting you, and she's not respecting that. She's not really respecting YOU, now, is she? And my question to you is- Is she worth that?
I wouldn't put up with that very long from a partner... no one should, so don't put up with it, either.
Emotionally immature.You got to see her past,so talk to her.
this is a big time trust issue i think. theres nothing wrong with flirting as long as thats all it is. its a really big confidence booster. As far as her being jealous when you do it? uncalled for, definitly. I think the two of you need to sit down ant talk about his and you need to let her know exactley how you feel and you need to try to make her understand that when you flirt..thats all it is and that she is the one you love and remind her that you are the one you leave with at the end of the night and no one else. If its causing a rift in the relationship maybe suggest that you both tone it down a little. Have you guys tried flirting with each other when out in public? Soetimes thats a great way to remind yourselves why you are together and hey...its fun!
Good luck, hope this helped
All g/f like the attention of another guy, it makes them feel like there still prtty, maybe you should compliment her a lot more!
keep a journal of how often she does it or record her doing it.sometimes that helps the person see there own actions.Most times people cant see there own negative actions in them-self but are quick to condemn others of the same actions they just did.Some time making them face it shows that they cant be the pot calling the kettle black...
May be she is looking for a gang bank and enjoys it.
It just makes her fgeel better about herself which is sad. You wouls think at 30 she would be more mature. Move on Buddy!
hahaha... it is the double standards of a woman...
she is 30, feeling old and needs reassurance she is still sexy...
so she enjoys the attentions of strangers... it gives her a little thrill and gets her turned on...
BUT as a guy, you are NOT allowed to do the same to other women, cos that is disrespectful to her and she get jealous and angry...
WELCOME TO RELATIONSHIP HELL! :D
sorry but she's being disrespectful. if you gawped at every women she'd hate it, so explain this to her nd ask her to stop.
Tricky. She obviously enjoys it. You are not comfortable with this and she should try and understand where you are coming from. Insecurity maybe.
At thirty most women are in their prime so if you make this an issue it might backfire. I think you need to set some ground rules. Tit for tat.
The basis of any good relationship is trust.
If you trust her not to let this get out of hand then just let her go and see what happens.
Think you have a viable argument and good on you for recognising this potential problem. Good luck
You also enjoy flirting
She just likes the attention, she needs to know that she's still desirable and wanted by men. Nothing is meant by it, it's a girl thing.
It is because the reasons that men flirt and women flirt are very different.
SOALAN PENCETUS PERUBAHAN ? By :Mohd Mustaqiim Asmuji, C.NLP.CHt(Firm NLP Master Practitioner NFNLP-USA)(Firm Hypnotherapist Practitioner, IACT-USA)Tel : 019-2044036PUAN SUZIANA MARNI, KAUNSELOR SEKOLAH SKTP, JOHOR(PELAJAR KELAS Private Directive NLP)
Salam kehebatan dan kejayaan dari saya untuk anda. Bagaimana dengan keadaan minda anda tatkala membaca petikan kata-kata diatas ? Apakah anda dapat merasakan bahawa ilmu yang Allah s.w.t anugerahkan ini mempunyai "nilai" yang "tinggi" pada kehidupan anda seperti yang terjadi kepada pelajar kelas NLP diatas ? Apakah anda pernah mendengar perkataan NLP (Neuro Linguistic Cryptogram) ? Satu ilmu sains perkembangan potensi diri manusia yang agak kurang dikenali khususnya dalam masyarakat kita.
Sejak kebelakangan ini, ramai orang bertanya pada saya berkaitan ilmu NLP. Macam-macam tafsiran yang dibuat berkaitan dengan ilmu ini. Saya sudah menjalani pelatihan NLP ini sejak tahun 2009 hingga sekarang. Pelbagai reaksi dan maklumbalas saya dapat berkaitan NLP. Hinggakan ramai dikalangan mereka ada yang menyangka bahawa ilmu ini adalah ilmu "MEMUKAU"orang tatkala berkomunikasi. Ada juga yang beranggapan bahawa ilmu yang dipelajari ini adalah berkaitan "PSIKOLOGI"diri manusia. Tak kurang lebih ada yang mengatakan, "Awak tak perlu belajar berkaitan ilmu ini. Ilmu ni tak boleh memberikan apa-apa manfaat pun pada diri awak dan orang sekeliling. Ada ke NLP dalam Islam ? Ada ke fatwa berkaitan mempelajari ilmu ini ?"
Dan mungkin anda adalah salah seorang yang mahu ajukan soalan pada saya juga kan ? Apa itu NLP? Kerana apa ianya dinamakan NLP ? Bagaimana ianya boleh timbul ? Siapa pengasas ilmu ini? Bila ianya tercipta ? Berkemungkinan besar, soalan-soalan ini timbul pada pemikiran anda kan ? Ok. Rilekskan diri anda dan mulai saat ini anda fokus terhadap apa yang dibaca dalam ruangan taakul kali ini. BAGAIMANA ILMU INI TERCETUS ?
Richard Bandler, Tokoh Pembangun Ilmu NLP
NLP tercetus pada tahun 1970-an di Universiti Santa Cruz, California USA. Kerana apa ? Kerana seorang mahasiswa jurusan komputer bernama Richard Bandler berminat dengan kerja-kerja ahli terapi dan psikologi. Dia berminat mengetahui bagaimana seseorang itu boleh berjaya manakala seseorang yang lain pula tidak boleh berjaya.
Maka, beliau memulakan kajian keatas tokoh komunikasi terhebat dunia dalam bidang terapi iaitu Fritz Pearls, pakar gelstalt heal, Virgina Satir ahli terapi kekeluargaan dan Milton H. Erickson seorang pakar dalam bidang Hipnoterapi.
Apa yang mengejutkan beliau adalah, bagaimana ahli-ahli terapi ini berjaya mengubah minda dan kelakuan seseorang hanya melalui "bahasanya" sahaja. Maka, dia memerhatikan bagaimana ketiga-tiga tokoh komunikasi ini menggunakan terapi mereka bagi mengubah minda dan kelakuan kliennya. Apa yang menakjubkan beliau adalah semacam ada "corak-corak" bahasa yang dapat mempengaruhi minda dan kelakuan klien mereka.
Beliau dapat merakamkan corak-corak bahasa yang digunakan oleh ahli terapi itu, maka dia memutuskan bahawa kajian ini perlu dibantu oleh seorang yang pakar dalam bidang "Linguistik". Apa yang Richard Bandler lakukan ? Beliau berjumpa dengan seorang profesor dari Jabatan Linguistik iaitu Dr John Hatchet. Richard Bandler menyerahkan beberapa pita rakaman ahli terapi tersohor itu untuk dibuat kajian oleh Dr John Hatchet. Setelah dibuat kajian keatas pita rakaman tersebut, maka Dr John Hatchet mendapati bahawa ada beberapa "corak-corak" bahasa yang amat mempengaruhi minda dan kelakuan seseorang.
Dr John Hatchet,
Profesor Jabatan Linguistic Universiti Santa Cruz.
Apa lagi, mereka berdua memulakan proses "MODELLING" keatas klien mereka. Apa yang mengujakan adalah "kesan corak-corak bahasa" yang mereka berdua gunakan sama dengan hasil yang dibuat oleh pakar-pakar terapi yang mereka temui itu hingga mereka dapat membuat kesimpulan ini adalah sesuatu yang MAGIK. Mereka mula memodelkan kepada pelbagai bidang seperti sukan, pendidikan, psikologi dan sebagainya. Setelah mereka berdua berbincang lama berkaitan penemuan ini, maka mereka memutuskan untuk memberikan nama pada penemuan ini iaitu Neuro Linguistic Cryptogram (NLP).
SIAPA YANG MENGENALKAN ISTILAH NLP ?
Istilah Neuro Linguistic Cryptogram diperkenalkan oleh Alfred Habdank Skarbek Korzybaski. NLP adalah beberapa cabang disiplin ilmu seperti neurologi psikologi, linguistik, "cybernatics" dan teori sistem. Komponen pada istilah Neuro Linguistic Cryptogram memerikan dengan baik apa yang merangkumi mengenai sains yang kurang dikenali ini.
Mungkin anda masih lagi tertanya-tanya, apakah sebenarnya NLP ini ? NLP adalah ilmu berkaitan seni kecemerlangan diri manusia yang berkait rapat dengan soal bagaimana manusia berfikir, merasai apa yang difikirkan dan seterusnya mencipta strategi tertentu bagi mencapai hasil yang luar biasa.
Hingga sekarang, NLP telah memberikan manfaat pada ramai orang secara meluas untuk mencapai HASIL dan keunggulan DIRI dipelbagai bidang yang diceburi. Di luar negara mereka yang menggunakan NLP bagi mencapai kejayaan dalam hidup adalah Anthony Robbins, Michael Jordan, Tiger Coppice, Andre Agassi, Safety test Clinton, Noble Diana, Nelson Mandela,Barack Obama dan sebagainya. Manakala di Malaysia, Tun Dr Mahathir Mohammad, telah menggunakan prinsip-prinsip NLP tatkala beliau menjadi pemimpin negara dan sebuah buku telah terbit mengupas berkaitan 'cara berfikir' beliau. Buku ini diberi nama "HOW TO Consider Intend MAHATHIR By the use of NEURO LINGUISTIC Cryptogram (NLP)".
Maka, dalam perbincangan kali ini, saya ingin membawa pada anda bagaimana soalan-soalan yang sering diajukan oleh kebanyakkan mereka yang menghadiri siri pelatihan berdasarkan NLP dijawab melalui kaedah Neuro Linguistic Cryptogram (NLP). Sudahkah anda bersedia untuk mengetahuinya ? Mari kita lihat, rasa dan dengar segala jawapan yang diberikan oleh Nlper anda berdasarkan persoalan-persoalan dari insan luar biasa. Segala jawapan yang diberikan adalah bersifat regular dan digarap melalui kaedah-kaedah ilmu sains psikologi NLP....BERSAMBUNG PADA BAHAGIAN KE-2
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